INTRODUCTION:
"Islam did not rise except through Ali's sword and Khadija's wealth,"
a saying goes. Khadija al-Kubra daughter of Khuwaylid ibn (son of) Asad ibn
Abdul-`Uzza ibn Qusayy belonged to the clan of Banu Hashim of the tribe of Banu
Asad. She was a distant cousin of her husband the Messenger of Allah Muhammad
ibn Abdullah ibn Abdul-Muttalib ibn Hashim ibn Abd Manaf ibn Qusayy, Allah's
peace and blessings be upon him and his progeny. Qusayy, then, is the ancestor
of all clans belonging to Quraysh. According to some historians, Quraysh's real
name was Fahr, and he was son of Malik son of Madar son of Kananah son of
Khuzaimah son of Mudrikah son of Ilyas son of Mazar son of Nazar son of Ma`ad
son of Adnan son of Isma`eel (Ishmael) son of Ibrahim (Abraham) son of Sam son
of Noah, peace and blessings of Allah be upon the prophets from among his
ancestors.
According to a number of sources, Khadija was born in 565 A.D. and died one
year before the Hijra (migration of the Holy Prophet and his followers from
Mecca to Medina) in 623 A.D. at the age of 58, but some historians say that she
lived to be 65. Khadija's mother, who died around 575 A.D., was Fatima daughter of Za'ida ibn al-Asam of Banu `Amir ibn Luayy ibn Ghalib, also a distant
relative of Prophet Muhammad (pbuh). Khadija's father, who died around 585
A.D., belonged to the Abd al-`Uzza clan of the tribe of Quraysh and, like many
other Qurayshis, was a merchant, a successful businessman whose vast wealth and
business talents were inherited by Khadija and whom the latter succeeded in
faring with the family's vast wealth. It is said that when Quraysh's trade
caravans gathered to embark upon their lengthy and arduous journey either to Syria during the summer or to Yemen during the winter, Khadija's caravan equalled the caravans of
all other traders of Quraysh put together.
Although the society in which Khadija was born was a terribly male chauvinistic
one, Khadija earned two titles: Ameerat-Quraysh, Princess of Quraysh, and
al-Tahira, the Pure One, due to her impeccable personality and virtuous
character, not to mention her honorable descent. She used to feed and clothe
the poor, assist her relatives financially, and even provide for the marriage
of those of her kin who could not otherwise have had means to marry.
By 585 A.D., Khadija was left an orphan. Despite that, and after having married
twice- and twice lost her husband to the ravaging wars with which Arabia was
afflicted- she had no mind to marry a third time though she was sought for
marriage by many honorable and highly respected men of the Arabian peninsula
throughout which she was quite famous due to her business dealings. She simply
hated the thought of being widowed for a third time. Her first husband was Abu
(father of) Halah Hind ibn Zarah who belonged to Banu `Adiyy, and the second
was Ateeq ibn `Aaith. Both men belonged to Banu Makhzoom. By her first husband,
she gave birth to a son who was named after his father Hind and who came to be
one of the greatest sahabah (companions of the Holy Prophet). He participated
in both battles of Badr and Uhud, and he is also famous for describing the
Prophet's physique; he was martyred during the Battle of the Camel in which he
fought on the side of Imam Ali ibn Abu Talib (as), although some historians say
that he died in Basrah. All biography accounts describe Hind as an outspoken
orator, a man of righteousness and generosity, and one who took extreme caution
while quoting the Messenger of Allah (pbuh). Besides him, Khadija gave birth by
Abu Halah to two other sons: al-Tahir, and, of course, Halah, who is not very
well known to historians despite the fact that his father is nicknamed after him.
Who were Khadija's children by her second husband? This is another controversy
that revolves round the other daughters or step-daughters of the Prophet (pbuh)
besides Fatima (as). These daughters, chronologically arranged, are: Zainab,
Ruqayya, and Ummu Kulthoom. Some historians say that these were Khadija's
daughters by her second husband, whereas others insist they were her daughters
by Muhammad (pbuh). The first view is held by Sayyid Safdar Husayn in his book
The Early History of Islam wherein he bases his conclusion on the contents of
al-Sayyuti's famous work Tarikh al-khulafa wal muluk (history of the caliphs
and kings). We hope some of our Muslim sisters who read this text will be
tempted to research this subject. Here is a brief account of Khadija's
daughters:
Zainab, their oldest, was born before the prophetic mission and was married to
Abul-`As ibn al-Rabee`. She had accepted Islam before her husband, and she
participated in the migration from Mecca to Medina. She died early in 8 A.H.
and was buried in Jannatul Baqee` where her grave can still be seen defying the
passage of time. Ruqayya and Ummu Kulthoom married two of Abu Lahab's sons. Abu
Lahab, one of the Prophet's uncles, stubbornly and openly rejected his nephew's
preaching; therefore, he was condemned in the Mecci Chapter 111 of the Holy
Qur'an, a chapter named after him. Having come to know about such a
condemnation, he became furious and said to his sons, "There shall be no
kinship between you and me unless you part with these daughters of
Muhammad," whereupon they divorced them instantly. Ruqayya married the
third caliph `Uthman ibn `Affan and migrated with him to Ethiopia in 615 A.D.,
five years after the inception of the prophetic mission, accompanied by no more
than nine others. That was the first of two such migrations. After coming back
home, she died in Medina in 2 A.H. and was buried at Jannatul Baqee`. `Uthman
then married her sister Ummu Kulthoom in Rabi` al-Awwal of the next (third)
Hijri year. Ummu Kulthoom lived with her husband for about six years before
dying in 9 A.H., leaving no children.
One particular quality in Khadija was quite interesting, probably more so than
any of her other qualities mentioned above: she, unlike her people, never
believed in nor worshipped idols. There was a very small number of Christians
and Jews in Mecca, and a fairly large number of Jews in Medina. Waraqah ibn
Nawfal, one of Khadija's cousins, had embraced Christianity and was a pious
monk who believed in the Unity of the Almighty, just as all early Christians
did, that is, before the concept of the Trinity crept into the Christian faith,
widening the theological differences among the believers in Christ (as). He
reportedly had translated the Bible from Hebrew into Arabic.
His likes could be counted on the fingers of one hand during those days in the entire populous metropolis of Mecca, or Becca, or Ummul-Qura (the mother town), a major commercial center at the crossroads of trade caravans linking Arabia with India, Persia, China, and Byzantium, a city that had its own Red Sea port at Shu`ayba.
Most importantly, Mecca housed the Ka`ba, the cubic "House of God"
which has always been sought for pilgrimage and which used to be circled by
naked polytheist "pilgrims" who kept their idols, numbering 360 small
and big, male and female, inside it and on its roof-top. Among those idols was
one for Abraham and another for Ishmael, each carrying divine arrows in his
hands.
Hubal, a huge idol in the shape of a man, was given as a gift by the Moabites of Syria to the tribesmen of Khuza`ah, and it was Mecca's chief idol. Two other idols of significance were those of the Lat, a grey granite image which was the deity of Thaqif in nearby Taif, and the Uzza, also a block of granite about twenty feet long. These were regarded as the wives of the Almighty... Each tribe had its own idol, and the wealthy bought and kept a number of idols at home. The institute of pilgrimage was already there; it simply was not being observed properly, and so was the belief in Allah Whom the Arabs regarded as their Supreme deity. Besides Paganism, other "religions" in Arabia included star worship and fetishism.
The Jews of Medina had migrated from Palestine and settled there waiting for
the coming of a new Prophet from the seed of Abraham (as) in whom they said
they intended to believe and to be the foremost in following, something which
unfortunately did not materialize; on the contrary, they joined ranks with the
Pagans to fight the spread of Islam. Only a handful of them embraced Islam,
including one man who was a neighbor of Muhammad (pbuh); he lived in the same
alley in Mecca where Khadija's house stood; his wife, also Jewish, used to
collect dry thorny bushes from the desert just to throw them in the Prophet's
way.
Since Khadija did not travel with her trade caravans, she had always had to
rely on someone else to act as her agent to trade on her behalf and to receive
an agreed upon commission in return. In 595 A.D., Khadija needed an agent to
trade in her merchandise going to Syria, and it was then that a number of
agents whom she knew before and trusted, as well as some of her own relatives,
particularly Abu Talib, suggested to her to employ her distant cousin Muhammad
ibn Abdullah (pbuh) who, by then, had earned the honoring titles of al-Sadiq,
the truthful, and al-Amin, the trustworthy.
Muhammad (pbuh) did not have any practical business experience, but he had twice accompanied his uncle Abu Talib on his trade trips and keenly observed how he traded, bartered, bought and sold and conducted business; after all, the people of Quraysh were famous for their involvement in trade more than in any other profession. It was not uncommon to hire an agent who did not have a prior experience; so, Khadija decided to give Muhammad (pbuh) a chance. He was only 25 years old. Khadija sent Muhammad (pbuh) word through Khazimah ibn Hakim, one of her relatives, offering him twice as much commission as she usually offered her agents to trade on her behalf. She also gave him one of her servants, Maysarah, who was young, brilliant, and talented, to assist him and be his bookkeeper.
She
also trusted Maysarah's account regarding her new employee's conduct, an
account which was most glaring, indeed one which encouraged her to abandon her
insistence never to marry again.
Before embarking upon his first trip as a businessman representing Khadija,
Muhammad (pbuh) met with his uncles for last minute briefings and
consultations, then he set out on the desert road passing through Wadi al-Qura,
Midian, and Diyar Thamud, places with which he was familiar because of having
been there at the age of twelve in the company of his uncle Abu Talib. He
continued the lengthy journey till he reached Busra (or Bostra) on the highway
to the ancient city of Damascus after about a month. It was then the capital of
Hawran, one of the southeastern portions of the province of Damascus situated north of the Balqa'. To scholars of classic literature, Hawran is known by
its Greek name Auranitis, and it is described in detail by Yaqut al-Hamawi,
Abul-Faraj al-Isfahani, and others.
Arab
trade caravans used to go there quite often and even beyond it to Damascus and
Gaza, and few made it all the way to Mediterranean shores to unload their
precious cargoes of Chinese paper and silk textiles bound for Europe.
What items did Muhammad (pbuh) carry with him to Busra, and what items did he
buy from there? Meccans were not known to be skilled craftsmen, nor did they
excel in any profession besides trade, but young Muhammad (pbuh) might have
carried with him a cargo of hides, raisins, perfumes, dried dates, light weight
woven items, probably silver bars, and most likely some herbs. He bought what
he was instructed by his employer to buy: these items may have included
manufactured goods, clothes, a few luxury items to sell to wealthy Meccans, and
maybe some household goods. Gold and silver currency accepted in Mecca included
Roman, Persian, and Indian coins, for Arabs during those times, including those
who were much more sophisticated than the ones among whom Muhammad (pbuh) grew
up such as the Arabs of the southern part of Arabia (Yemen, Hadramout, etc.),
did not have a currency of their own; so, barter was more common than cash. The
first Arab Islamic currency, by the way, was struck in Damascus by the Umayyad
ruler Abd al-Malik ibn Marwan (697-698 A.D.) in 78 A.H., 36 years after the
establishment of the Umayyad dynasty (661-750).
The time Muhammad (pbuh) stayed in Busra was no more than a couple of months
during which he met many Christians and Jews and noticed the theological
differences among the major Christian sects that led to the disassociation of
the Copts, the Syrian (Chaldean) Nestorian, and the Armenian Christians from
the main churches of Antioch (Antakiya), Rome, and Egyptian Alexandria. Such
dissensions and differences of theological viewpoints provided Muhammad (pbuh)
with plenty of food for thought; he contemplated upon them a great deal. He was
seen once by Nestor the monk sitting in the shade of a tree as caravans entered
the outskirts of Busra, not far from the monk's small monastery.
"Who is the man beneath that tree?" inquired Nestor of Maysarah. "A man of Quraysh," Maysarah answered, adding, "of the people [the Hashemites] who have guardianship of the Sanctuary." "None other than a Prophet is sitting beneath that tree," said Nestor who had observed some of the signs indicative of Prophethood: two angels (or, according to other reports, two small clouds) were shading Muhammad (pbuh) from the oppressive heat of the sun. "Is there a glow, a slight redness, around his eyes that never parts with him?" Nestor asked Maysarah. When the latter answered in the affirmative, Nestor said, "He most surely is the very last Prophet; congratulations to whoever believes in him."
One of Muhammad's observations when he was in that Syrian city was the historical
fact that a feud was brewing between the Persian and Roman empires, each vying
for hegemony over Arabia's fertile crescent. Indeed, such an observation was
quite accurate, for after only a few years, a war broke out between the then
mightiest nations on earth that ended with the Romans losing it, as the Holy
Qur'an tells us in Chapter 30 (The Romans), which was revealed in 7 A.H./615-16
A.D., only a few months after the fall of Jerusalem to the Persians, just to
win in a successive one.
Only four years prior to that date, the Persians had scored a sweeping victory
over the Christians, spreading their control over Aleppo, Antioch, and even
Damascus. Muhammad (pbuh) was concerned about either of these two empires
extending its control over the land inhabited by Muhammad's Pagan fiercely
independent Pagan people. The loss of Jerusalem, birthplace of Christ Jesus son
of Mary (as), was a heavy blow to the prestige of Christianity.
Most Persians were then following Zoroastrianism, a creed introduced in the 6th century before Christ by Zoroaster (628-551 B.C.), also known as Zarathustra, whose adherents are described as worshippers of the "pyre," the holy fire. "Persia," hence, meant "the land of the worshippers of the pyre, the sacred fire." Modern day Iran used to be known as "Aryana," land of the Aryan nations and tribes. Not only Iranians, but also Kurds, and even Germans, prided in being Aryans, (Caucasian) Nordics or speakers of an Indo-European dialect. Some Persians had converted to Christianity as we know from Salman al-Farisi who was one such adherent till he fell in captivity, sold in Mecca and freed to be one of the most renown and cherished sahabis and narrators of hadith in Islamic history, so much so that the Prophet of Islam (pbuh) said, "Salman is one of us, we Ahl al-Bayt (People of the Household of Prophethood)."
The war referred to above was between the then Byzantine (Eastern Roman)
emperor Heraclius (575 - 641 A.D.) and the Persian king Khusrau (Khosrow)
Parwiz (Parviz) or Chosroes II (d. 628 A.D.). It was one of many wars in which
those mighty nations were embroiled and which continued for many centuries. Yet
the hands of Divine Providence were already busy paving the path for Islam: the
collision between both empires paved the way for the ultimate destruction of
the ancient Persian empire and in Islam setting root in that important part of
the world. Moreover, Muhammad's (and, naturally, Khadija's) offspring came to
marry ladies who were born and raised at Persian as well as Roman palaces. Imam
Husain ibn Ali ibn Abu Talib (as), Muhammad's grandson and our Third Holy Imam,
married the daughter of the last Persian emperor Jazdagird (Yazdegerd) III son
of Shahryar and grandson of this same Khusrau II. Jazdagerd ruled Persia from
632-651 A.D. and lost the Battle of Qadisiyyah to the Muslim forces in 636,
thus ending the rule of the Sassanians.
Having been defeated, he fled for Media in northwestern Iran, homeland of Persian Mede tribesmen, and from there to Merv, an ancient Central Asian city near modern day Mary in Turkmenistan (until very recently one of the republics of the Soviet Union), where he was killed by a miller.
The
slain emperor left two daughters who, during their attempt to escape, following
the murder of their father, were caught and sold as slaves.
One of them, Shah-Zenan, ended up marrying our Third Holy Imam Husain ibn Ali
ibn Abu Talib (as), whereas her sister married the renown scholar and acclaimed
muhaddith (traditionist) Muhammad son of the first Muslim caliph Abu Bakr. Shah-Zenan
was awarded a royal treatment and was given a new name in her own Persian
mother tongue: Shahr Banu, which means "mistress of the ladies of the
city." The marriage between her and Imam Husain (as) produced our Fourth
Holy Imam (Zainul-Abidin, or al-Sajjad) Ali ibn al-Husain ibn Ali ibn Abu Talib
(as).
The profits Khadija reaped from that trip were twice as much as she had
anticipated. Maysarah was more fascinated by Muhammad (pbuh) than by anything
related to the trip. Muhammad (pbuh), on the other hand, brought back his
impressions about what he had seen and heard, impressions which he related to
his mistress. You see, those trade caravans were the only links contemporary
Arabs had with their outside world: they brought them the news of what was going
on beyond their drought-ridden and famine-stricken desert and sand dunes.
Waraqah ibn Nawfal, like Bahirah, the monk who had seen and spoken to Muhammad
(pbuh) when Muhammad (pbuh) was a lad, adhered to the Nestorian Christian sect.
He heard the accounts about the personality and conduct of young Muhammad
(pbuh) from both his cousin Khadija and her servant Maysarah, an account which
caused him to meditate for a good while and think about what he had heard.
Raising his head, he said to Khadija, "Such manners are fit only for the
messengers of God. Who knows? Maybe this young man is destined to be one of
them." This statement was confirmed a few years later, and Waraqah was the
very first man who identified Muhammad (pbuh) as the Messenger of Allah immediately
after Muhammad (pbuh) received the first revelation at Hira cave.
The trip's measure of success encouraged Khadija to employ Muhammad (pbuh)
again on the winter trip to southern Arabia, i.e. Yemen, the land that
introduced the coffee beans to the rest of the world, the land where the renown
Ma'rib irrigation dam was engineered, the land of Saba' and the renown Balqees,
the Arabian Queen of Sheba (Saba') of Himyar, who married King Solomon
(Sulayman the wise, peace be upon him), in 975 B.C. (after the completion of
the construction of the famous Solomon's Temple [1]),
the land of natives skilled in gold, silver and other metal handicrafts, not to
mention their ingenuity in the textile industry and domestic furniture..., and
it may even be the land that gave Arabic its first written script which, as
some believe, was modelled after written Amheric, then the official language in
Ethiopia and its colonies. Yemen, at that time, was being ruled by an Ethiopian
regent. This time Khadija offered Muhammad (pbuh) three times the usual
commission. Unfortunately, historians do not tell us much about this second
trip except that it was equally profitable to both employer and employee.
Some
historians do not mention this trip at all.
Khadija was by then convinced that she had finally found a man who was worthy
of her, so much so that she initiated the marriage proposal herself. Muhammad
(pbuh) sat to detail all the business transactions in which he became involved
on her behalf, but the wealthy and beautiful lady of Quraysh was thinking more
about her distant cousin than about those transactions. She simply fell in love
with Muhammad (pbuh) just as the daughter of the Arabian prophet Shu`ayb had
fallen in love with then fugitive prophet Moses (as).
Muhammad (pbuh) was of medium stature, inclined to slimness, with a large head, broad shoulders and the rest of his body perfectly proportioned. His hair and beard were thick and black, not altogether straight but slightly curled. His hair reached midway between the lobes of his ears and shoulders, and his beard was of a length to match. He had a noble breadth of forehead and the ovals of his large eyes were wide, with exceptionally long lashes and extensive brows, slightly arched but not joined. His eyes were said to have been black, but other accounts say they were brown, or light brown. His nose was aquiline and his mouth was finely shaped. Although he let his beard grow, he never allowed the hair of his moustache to protrude over his upper lip. His skin was white but tanned by the sun.
And there was a light on his face, a glow, the same light that had shone from his father, but it was more, much more powerful, and it was especially apparent on his broad forehead and in his eyes which were remarkably luminous.
By the time he was gone, Khadija sought the advice of a friend of hers named
Nufaysa daughter of Umayyah. The latter offered to approach him on her behalf
and, if possible, arrange a marriage between them. Nufaysa came to Muhammad
(pbuh) and asked him why he had not married yet. "I have no means to
marry," he answered. "But if you were given the means," she
said, "and if you were bidden to an alliance where there is beauty and
wealth and nobility and abundance, would you not then consent?" "Who
is she?!" he excitedly inquired. "Khadija," said Nufaysa.
"And how could such a marriage be mine?!" he asked.
"Leave
that to me!" was her answer. "For my part," he said, "I am
willing." Nufaysa returned with these glad tidings to Khadija who then
sent word to Muhammad (pbuh) asking him to come to her. When he came, she said
to him:
O son of my uncle! I love you for your kinship with me, and for that you are
ever in the center, not being a partisan among the people for this or for that.
And I love you for your trustworthiness, and for the beauty of your character
and the truth of your speech.
Then she offered herself in marriage to him, and they agreed that he should
speak to his uncles and she would speak to her uncle `Amr son of Asad, since
her father had died. It was Hamzah, despite being relatively young, whom the
Hashemites delegated to represent them on this marriage occasion, since he was
most closely related to them through the clan of Asad; his sister Safiyya had
just married Khadija's brother `Awwam. It was Abu Talib, Muhammad's uncle, who
delivered the marriage sermon saying,
All praise is due to Allah Who has made us the progeny of Ibrahim (Abraham),
the seed of Isma`eel (Ishmael), the descendants of Ma`ad, the substance of
Mudar, and Who made us the custodians of His House and the servants of its
sacred precincts, making for us a House sought for pilgrimage and a shrine of
security, and He also gave us authority over the people. This nephew of mine
Muhammad (pbuh) cannot be compared with any other man: if you compare his
wealth with that of others, you will not find him a man of wealth, for wealth
is a vanishing shadow and a fickle thing. Muhammad (pbuh) is a man whose
lineage you all know, and he has sought Khadija daughter of Khuwaylid for
marriage, offering her such-and-such of the dower of my own wealth.
Nawfal
then stood and said,
All praise is due to Allah Who has made us just as you have mentioned and
preferred us over those whom you have indicated, for we, indeed, are the
masters of Arabs and their leaders, and you all are worthy of this (bond of
marriage). The tribe (Quraysh) does not deny any of your merits, nor does
anyone else dispute your lofty status and prestige. And we, furthermore, wish
to be joined to your rope; so, bear witness to my words, O people of Quraysh! I
have given Khadija daughter of Khuwaylid in marriage to Muhammad ibn Abdullah
for the dower of four hundred dinars.
Then Nawfal paused, whereupon Abu Talib said to him, "I wished her uncle
had joined you (in making this statement)." Hearing that, Khadija's uncle
stood and said, "Bear witness, O men of Quraysh, that I have given Khadija
daughter of Khuwaylid in marriage to Muhammad ibn Abdullah."
These details and more are recorded in Ibn Hisham's Seera. After his marriage,
Muhammad (pbuh) moved from his uncle's house to live with his wife in her house
which stood at the smiths' market, an alley branching out of metropolitan
Mecca's long main bazaar, behind the mas`a, the place where the pilgrims
perform the seven circles during the hajj or `umra. In that house Fatima (as)
was born and the revelation descended upon the Messenger of Allah (pbuh) many
times. This house, as well as the one in which the Prophet of Islam (pbuh) was
born (which stood approximately 50 meters northwards), were both demolished by
the ignorant and fanatical Wahhabi rulers of Saudi Arabia last year (1413
A.H./1993 A.D.) and turned into public bathrooms. The grave sites of many
family members and companions of the Holy Prophet (pbuh) were all demolished by
the same Wahhabis in 1343 A.H./1924 A.D. against the wish and despite the
denunciation of the adherents of all other Muslim sects and schools of thought
world-wide.
The marriage was a very happy one, and it produced a lady who was one of the
four perfect women in all the history of mankind: Fatima daughter of Muhammad
(pbuh). Before her, Qasim and Abdullah were born, but they both died at
infancy.
By the time Khadija got married, she was quite a wealthy lady, so wealthy that
she felt no need to keep trading and increasing her wealth; instead, she
decided to retire and enjoy a comfortable life with her husband who, on his
part, preferred an ascetic life to that of money making. The Messenger of Allah
(pbuh) had no desire to accumulate wealth; that was not the purpose for which he,
peace and blessings of Allah upon him and his progeny, was created.
He was created to be savior of mankind from the darkness of ignorance, idol worship, polytheism, misery, poverty, injustice, oppression, and immorality. He very much loved to meditate, though his meditation deepened his grief at seeing his society sunk so low in immorality, lawlessness, and the absence of any sort of protection for those who were weak and oppressed. Khadija's period of happiness lasted no more than 15 years after which her husband, now the Messenger of Allah (pbuh), started his mission to invite people to the Oneness of God, to equality between men and women, and to an end to the evils of the day. Muhammad (pbuh) was forty years old when the first verses of the Holy Qur'an were revealed to him.
They
were the first verses of Surat al-Alaq (chapter 96), and they were revealed
during the month of Ramadan 13 years before the Hijra, at the cave of Hira in
Jabal al-Noor (the mountain of light), his favorite place for isolation and
meditation, a place which is now visited by many pilgrims. Muhammad (pbuh) went
back home heavy-hearted, profoundly perplexed, deeply impressed by the sight of
arch-angel Gabriel and by the depth of meaning implied in those beautiful
words:
In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
Proclaim (or read)! In the Name of your Lord and Cherisher who created
(everything). (He) created man of a (mere) clot of congealed blood. Proclaim!
And your Lord is the Most Bountiful Who taught (the use of) the pen, Who taught
man that which he knew not... (Qur'an, 96:1-5)
He felt feverish, so he asked to be wrapped and, once he felt better, he
narrated what he had seen and heard to his faithful and supportive wife.
"By Allah," Khadija said, "Allah shall never subject you to any
indignity..., for you always maintain your ties with those of your kin, and you
are always generous in giving; you are diligent, and you seek what others
regard as unattainable; you cool the eyes of your guest, and you lend your support
to those who seek justice and redress.
Stay
firm, O cousin, for by Allah I know that He will not deal with you except most
beautifully, and I testify that you are the awaited Prophet in this nation, and
your time, if Allah wills, has come."
After a short while, Khadija told her husband about the prediction of the
Syrian monk Buhayra regarding Muhammad's Prophethood, and about her dialogue
with both her servant Maysarah, who had informed her of what Bahirah (or
Buhayrah) had said, and with her cousin Waraqah ibn Nawfal. She then
accompanied her husband to Waraqah's house to narrate the whole incident.
"Let me hear it in your own words," Nawfal said to Muhammad (pbuh),
adding, "O noble master!"
Having heard the Prophet's words, Nawfal took his time to select his words very carefully; he said, "By Allah, this is the prediction which had been conveyed to Moses (as) and with which the Children of Israel are familiar! [Moses] had said: `O how I wish I could be present when Muhammad (pbuh) is delegated with Prophethood to support his mission and to assist him!'"
It was only natural for Khadija to receive her share of the harassment meted to
him by none other than those who, not long ago, used to call him al-Sadiq,
al-Amin. Khadija did not hesitate to embrace Islam at all, knowing that her
husband could not have put forth any false claim. Yahya ibn `Afeef is quoted
saying that he once came, during the period of jahiliyya (before the advent of
Islam), to Mecca to be hosted by al-Abbas ibn Abdul-Muttalib, one of the
Prophet's uncles mentioned above. "When the sun started rising," says
he, "I saw a man who came out of a place not far from us, faced the Ka`ba
and started performing his prayers. He hardly started before being joined by a
young boy who stood on his right side, then by a woman who stood behind them.
When he bowed down, the young boy and the woman bowed, and when he stood up
straight, they, too, did likewise. When he prostrated, they, too,
prostrated." Then he expressed his amazement at that, saying to al-Abbas:
"This is quite strange, O Abbas!" "Is it, really?" retorted
al-Abbas. "Do you know who he is?" al-Abbas asked his guest who
answered in the negative.
"He
is Muhammad ibn Abdullah, my nephew. Do you know who the young boy is?"
asked he again. "No, indeed," answered the guest. "He is Ali son
of Abu Talib. Do you know who the woman is?" The answer came again in the
negative, to which al-Abbas said, "She is Khadija daughter of Khuwaylid,
my nephew's wife." This incident is included in the books of both Imam
Ahmad and al-Tirmithi, each detailing it in his own Sahih. And she bore
patiently in the face of persecution to which her revered husband and his small
band of believers were exposed at the hands of the polytheists and aristocrats
of Quraysh, sacrificing her vast wealth to promote Islam, seeking Allah's
Pleasure.
Among Khadija's merits was her being one of the four most perfect of all women
of mankind, the other three being: Fatima daughter of Muhammad (pbuh), Maryam
bint `Umran (Mary daughter of Amram), mother of Christ (as) and niece of
prophet Zakariyya and Ishba (Elizabeth), and `Asiya daughter of Muzahim, wife
of Pharaoh. Prophet Zakariyya, as the reader knows, was the father of Yahya
(John the Baptist), the latter being only a few months older than prophet Jesus
(as). The Prophet of Islam (pbuh) used to talk about Khadija quite often after
her demise, so much so that his youngest wife, `Ayesha daughter of Abu Bakr,
felt extremely jealous and said to him, "... But she was only an old woman
with red eyes, and Allah has compensated you with a better and younger wife
(meaning herself)."
This caused him (pbuh) to be very indignant, and he said, "No, indeed; He has not compensated me with someone better than her. She believed in me when all others disbelieved; she held me truthful when others called me a liar; she sheltered me when others abandoned me; she comforted me when others shunned me; and Allah granted me children by her while depriving me of children by other women." Imam Ahmad ibn Hanbal, Abu Hatim, al-Dulabi, al-Tabari, and many others, all quote `Ayesha saying: "One day, the Messenger of Allah (pbuh) mentioned Khadija affectionately, so I was carried away by jealousy and said about her what I should not have said. It was then that his face changed color in a way I never saw it change except when he (pbuh) was receiving revelation, so I realized what I had done and felt overwhelmed by regret to the extent that I could not help uttering these words: `O Lord! If You remove the anger of Your Messenger right now, I pledge not to ever speak ill of her as long as I live.' Having seen that, he forgave me and narrated to me some of her merits." Both Muslim and Bukhari indicate in their respective Sahih books that among Khadija's merits was the fact that the Lord of Dignity ordered Jibraeel (Gabriel), peace be upon him, to convey His regards to her.
Gabriel said to Muhammad (pbuh): "O Muhammad! Khadija is bringing you a bowl of food; when she comes to you, tell her that her Lord greets her, and convey my greeting, too, to her." When he (pbuh) did so, she said: "Allah is the Peace, and He is the source of all peace, and upon Gabriel be peace." Khadija died of an attack of fever on the tenth or eleventh day of the month of Ramadan, ten years after the start of the Prophetic mission (in the year 619 A.D.), 24 years after her marriage with Muhammad (pbuh), and she was buried at Hajun in the outskirts of Mecca. The Messenger of Allah (pbuh) dug her grave and buried her... Funeral prayers (salat al janaza) had not yet been mandated in Islam. It is reported that by the time she died, her entire wealth had already been spent to promote Islam; she left not a single gold dinar nor a single silver dirham, nor anything more or less...
O
soul that are at rest! Return to your Lord,
well-pleased (with Him),well-pleasing (Him),
so enter among My servants, and enter into My garden.
(Qur'an, 89:27-30)
Notes:
[1] This temple was built by Solomon (Prophet
Sulayman) to express his gratitude for what the Almighty had granted him. Solomon
had in advance obtained his Lord's permission to erect it. A glimpse of its
grandeur is described in the Holy Qur'an in 27:44: "It was said to her (to
Balqees, the Queen of Sheba): Enter the palace; but when she saw it, she deemed
it to be a great expanse of water," that is, its marble floors shone like
glass, reflecting her image as water does. This temple was later ordered by
Solomon to be demolished in its entirety, and the claim of the Jews that the
al-Aqsa mosque is built on its very foundations is false. The Jews plot to
demolish the al-Aqsa mosque in order to rebuild Solomon's Temple. Jews intend
to do so at the right time, when they realize that the Muslims of the world,
because of the weakness and hypocrisy of their rulers, are too weak to stand
between them and the achievement of their most vile goals, and when the
"Christian" West will be ready, more than now, to help them achieve
their objectives. The West has been supporting the Jews against the Muslims,
and there will never be any reversal to this trend... We are Allah's, and to
Him shall we return...